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Hello everyone,

Don’t you just love it when you can do a little staycation from time to time? The first time I actually stayed in London for a ‘so-called’ staycation was last weekend. I picked Shoreditch as my go to, because it reminds me of the Northern Quarter in Manchester – you can find it all, from fancy bars to niche coffee places. Keep on reading to find out more about how you could turn your own city into a holiday spot, or how to most enjoy London’s Shoreditch if you’ve never visited.

Where to stay

If you’re looking for a cute & fun accommodation, pick Point A Hotels where you can turn your room into a colourful dance floor which comes in handy if you want to capture some cool pictures! They offer an excellent customer service and a great A-list which you can use for discounts at partner brands (restaurants, beauty salons, bars). Some of them are Ballie Ballerson, Shoreditch Nails, Rascals – looks super fun, Lanzana Café and many others. All of these are walking distance from the hotel which is great for a change when it comes to London.

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For me, the best part was the breakfast which they call ‘the brekkie’. The area is really stylish and the breakfast was delicious: we had fruit, granola, different types of pastry. I love a great breakfast, so this was a winner for me – guilty for trying everything!

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What to do

Shoreditch is such a fun place! We went to Ballie Ballerson where we danced and played around in their three available ball pits – such a great laugh! I have to say, the person who came up with this idea was a genius – a playground for grownups! We then had a bar crawl to different places around Shoreditch. There’s something fun for everyone, you just need to look up the places first or let yourself go with the vibe.IMG_4946.JPG

What to eat & drink

The pizza at Ballie is absolutely delicious. This was my second time visiting them, and for the first time I went for the bottomless Prosecco and pizza, so I tried all of them. My favourite ones are the BBQ chicken and the Mozzarella & Pesto. Try the David Bowie cocktail – it comes with your own glitter lipstick which is quite unique.

You have to visit Shoreditch and pay the Point A Hotel a visit! It’s your ticket to an unforgettable weekend for sure.

Until next time,

NotAGirlyGal

Hello my lovelies and Happy New Year,

Either you started the new year with a resolution and new plans or you simply just went on with it, you clearly must have felt something inside when the new year had started. Inevitably, the idea of new beginnings is somehow implemented in our minds by the way the world works, but you don’t have to feel the social pressure. You just have to do everything you can to make yourself happy and that’s all that matters. That’s why, today I am giving you top tips on how to start the year positive and feel at your best while doing so.

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Start by changing your vocabulary with action words

Positive talking inspires positive thinking. Believe it or not, when we say something out loud, our subconscious mind fully believes it. If you say ‘I hope to get a good grade on my Marketing exam’ it will actually translate to your subconscious as ‘There are chances I won’t get that exam’. Start by replacing ‘hope’ with ‘will’ and your results will change significantly. Just notice the difference a verb can make in the statement ‘I will get get a good grade on my Marketing exam’. Same goes for verbs such as ‘could’ or ‘may’. Powerful vocabulary will empower you to achieve everything you plan.

Talk positively about your life experiences

Have you noticed how often we complain about stuff? How we tend to blame others or other circumstances for our ‘bad experiences’? Susan Jeffers stated that we are a result of how we react to different situations in our lives and we only have two options: to choose to be happy or to moan and groan. Next time you’re facing an unpleasant situation such as a card loss, traffic jam, delays and so on, keep your strength and just go on with it as there’s nothing you could do about the situation, but make the most of it. How? If my train or flight is delayed I focus on getting work done instead, or if I lose a credit card (which I did last month), I just order a new one and feel happy no one has used it contactless. Instead of complaining to others about these ‘injustices’ take yourself from the position of a victim to one of a powerful positive person and you’ll gain so much more.

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Stop judging others and surround yourself by positive people

Sometimes we feel unhappy about others, but judging someone else frequently is a time waste. Wait until you understand the whole context until you can form an opinion for yourself. Ask yourself ‘Why did that action of hers bothered me so much?’ Most of the time it’s you who is taking things in a wrong way or get upset because your own frustrations, but you need to assess the situation objectively to put your finger on it. You should stay away from people who are not supporting your growth and surround yourself by kind and loving people like yourself.

Say ‘yes’ more often

It’s so easy to say no and shut the door to people and opportunities. I often fell into this trap, but I choose to say ‘yes’ as often as possible. Let’s make time to meet our good friend for coffee or go to the gym more often. Life is a series of amazing opportunities that we only need to respond to.

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Bring out your colours

And if you thought there’s nothing like positive dressing, for me it definitely is. Wearing nudes or colours brings a lot more positives in my life. You should try it too.

I feel so happy I shared this with you today and truly hope it will change your attitude towards life for the better. It will take a while to make the changes, but practice my tips everyday and you’ll live a more positive life.

 

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Have a fabulous 2019,

NotAGirlyGal

It’s almost Christmas Time! Are you running out of time for your Christmas shopping? Or are you looking for the latest bits and bobs to complete it? You’re in the right place! Have a look at these quick wins when it comes to gifts for 7 personality types!

For your special one

Mini perfume collection and a bottle of Prosecco.

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I gifted this to my mum last year, just because she had a similar set when I was little, so it had a deep meaning for us. I think a set of luxury perfumes is a nice addition for the person who already has everything in terms of beauty. You can find this set in airports or online, but I would get it from the airport as it’s faster. Additionally, you can add a bottle of Prosecco or chocolate! 

For the fashion lover

Bags are always so loved by fashionistas – you would make them so happy with a bag for sure! You would have to do a bit of research around the type of bags she likes. If you don’t remember exactly, have a look on her social media and start by observing patterns in her bag choices. Does she like small bags or business bags where she can fit her whole life in?

Christmas Gift Ideas for 7 Personality Types for the Last-Minute Shopper NotAGirlyGal Guess BagWe all have that friend who travels with her laptop and all other essential things in her bag (I’m that friend) or the ones who prefer to travel light! It would be an added bonus to purchase from her favourite brand, just ensure she doesn’t have it already before you place your order. Find a small bag option here and a medium / large one here.

For the shoes addict

I have a friend obsessed with shoes. If you have one as well, then the shoes option is such an excellent idea! You’ll go down in gift history with this one. Similar to the bag idea, ensure you know the type of shoes and brand she prefers. I’ll give you a pair of high heeled shoes, but also a low heel option.

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For the gourmet 

Classy taste? For the gourmets in our life, going for food would be an absolute winner. A pleasure to the buds would be a hamper made all by yourself tailored to his / her favourite treats. In mine, I included a Hollandaise cheese platter, a special bottle of wine, caviar and olive spread. I digged out the internet for some options that you can find below.Christmas Gift Ideas for 7 Personality Types for the Last-Minute Shopper NotAGirlyGal Cheese

Similar – Waitrose Cheese Platter

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For the coziness lover 

Does this person enjoy creating a cosy atmosphere every time you visit her? Does she enjoy lounging and indulging? Then, create her the perfect scenario! Go for a Christmas onesie, a pair of fluffy slippers, a beauty soap, a beauty mask and a box of special chocolate. Look for a special candle that she can have lit while she’s relaxing with her beauty mask on! I included links to what I can find online for my chosen items. 

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Hand made beauty soap

Scented Candle 

Mozart Chocolates 

For the Travel Lover

Is your friend always going away and you barely see her? Then clearly, she loves her travels. For the travel lover go for something like a travel pillow or a passport holder set! You might think she already has these, but it’s always good for her to diversify. Don’t we all think we don’t have enough clothes or shoes? It goes the same way with these things too!

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Passport Case 

For the beauty addicts

Hello beauty lovers, I salute your beauty rituals. Beauty addicts always love to try new products and always welcome more products to their collection which makes it super easy for us when we’re looking for their perfect gift. Are you a last-minute shopper? Think about offering them a full ritual, from start to finish. Start with make-up removers that your friend will use to ‘take the day off’. Next, consider adding a Lush bath bomb and a face mask to make sure they’ll fully relax. For the wow factor, add in a bottle of Champagne that she can enjoy during her bath. I personally love to drink Champagne in the bath tub, so your friend might as well!

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Lush Bath Bomb

Lancôme Make-Up Remover & Toner

Ikea Face Towels

Korika Face Mask

Champagne

For the book warm

The best Christmas gift you can make a book lover is the book Feel the Fear… but do it anyway by Susan Jeffers. This book will change their lives and encourage their positive thinking, empowering them to become powerful. It clearly had an impact on how I see life and made me moan less and focus on enjoying life instead. We all have two options: to complain or to just go with it & deal with it. The subconscious mind will always listen to the conscious mind, so when you complain or think you’re not good enough, your subconscious mind will believe it. Read this book and discuss it with your friends because it’s truly inspiring. You can gift this book to anyone you’d like to encourage to grow.

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I designed this help list of Christmas Gift Ideas for 7 Personality Types especially for you as a thank you gift for reading and supporting my blog. I wish you the best holiday season and a lot of inspiration when you do your shopping for your loved ones! What would you like to receive from the above? 

Please note these links are not affiliate links. 

Happy Holidays,

NotAGirlyGal 🎄❤️

Hello girls,

How have you been? I’ve been enjoying London’s little treasures lately as I feel really festive as Christmas is just around the corner! On this note, I have teamed up with Adriana  to give you some good business and styling advice that you can trust to follow going forward in 2019. Make the most out of it!

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Andrada: Hi, Adriana! Thank you for joining me today in this pretty location and thank you for the Salted Caramel Macaron tip – it’s delicious. The reason why I picked you to give us insight into these is because you’re really successful with your own business and breaking it into online courses! First of all, what is your blog about and why did you decide to go into blogging?

Adriana: Since I was a little girl I wanted to be a model however as I didn’t fulfil the necessary conditions I didn’t follow this path. My dreams however stayed in my mind unrealized. Years later I’ve discovered that I can combine my passion for fashion and photography into a fashion & lifestyle blog. Now, I can say that this was the best present I could give to myself. I present a variety of my own fashion style, fashion tips, product reviews, healthy recipes etc. to please my readers.

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Andrada: That’s absolutely amazing. Congratulations for following your dream and working towards it no matter what! I feel that women need to motivate themselves and be their biggest supporters, even when no one is! Could you give us one piece of advice for a woman starting her own business now?

Adriana: Thank you, Andrada! You’re right! When you start your own business you fear that no-one would buy anything from you, no-one cares about it, no-one is interested, the competition is high and it’s not worth the hassle but these are only the unnecessary thoughts you say to yourself. Don’t doubt in yourself, just follow your dreams and believe that you’re worth everything but good in your life. We attract what we think of, so stay positive. Always.

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Andrada: Who is your role model? What inspires you?

Adriana: It may sound strange but I aim to inspire and motivate myself at all times. I don’t have a role model, I don’t compare myself to others, competitors, top bloggers. I prefer a healthy balance in life, I choose to be me, be positive, unique and true.

Andrada: That’s great! I love how positive you are – I see a great strength in you and I am happy that you’re thinking that way. Talking about fashion now, as we’re going towards the colder season, what items do you recommend women to wear and what are your top 3 items?

Adriana: I cannot imagine cooler season of autumn/winter without a comfortable warm boots, a nice colour coat and accessories that are not to be missed like a wooly hat, scarf and gloves. I always aim to pick a colourful coat and hats as a stylist and a woman I believe we should add more colour into our outfits as it simply improves our mood. My today’s outfit is a great example of this statement. Don’t you agree? You can find me on social media or my blog. Lots of love lovelies and have an amazing festive season!

Andrada: Thank you Adriana for joining me today and I wish you the best of luck with your blogging business! ☺️

Connect with Adriana on: Instagram, Facebook  and blog.

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Check out my responses to these questions on Adriana’s blog – I’m giving tips on starting a business and staying motivated during though times, also you’ll get some insight into my role models.

Let me know in the comment section, how do you keep yourself motivated?

Lots of love,

NotAGirlyGal

Hello my favourite readers,

How’s down for some beach summer essentials? I sure am! These items are surely super familiar to you, but sometimes it just happens that we forget some when packing – just like I did this time around (that hat is not mine by the way). I’ll share with you the items I swear by when hitting the beach.

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This is ALL I take with me on the beach (plus a towel). Only five items to fully enjoy the day!

Most needed: Hat and Evian Facial Spray

If I were to pick the most used ones: clearly, the hat and the facial spray. It gets really warm on the beach and a nice fresh water spray will do wonders. I really like this one by Evian, although I’ve been using the La Roche Posay one and it’s a bit more refreshing.

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Necessary: Garnier Sunscreen!

Up next: sunscreen! I feel that a 30 SPF one, will protect you from the sun rays, but you’ll still get a nice tan. I never burn my skin, but I’ve tested it on my friends too. Plus, Garnier’s Sunscreen range never disappoints.

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Keeping a beautiful face: Ray Ban Aviator Sunglasses 

Obviously, I need my sunglasses on – to avoid ugly wrinkles and ah yeah, see a bit better in full light.

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Optional: JBL 

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You might have noticed that JBL there – A speaker on the beach can cause a bit of controversy. If it’s a quiet beach, just be mindful of others and play it on low or not at all. I didn’t really play music on mine as everyone was chilling and it was a different kind of vibe.

Now, your turn – are you using a facial spray on the beach? Let me know! I’m addicted to them 🙂

Lots of Love,

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Hello everyone,

Hope you’re enjoying the sun and beautiful weather this summer! 💋  Right now, I’m sharing with you three of my beloved places to visit in Europe, so you can get the feel of the place and book your own trip to one of these beautiful destinations.

Travelling has always been second nature to me, mostly because my mum was super keen on it and was taking us all over the world with her. Now, I’ve grown to enjoy it and have my own reasons why. It’s mostly because I love seeing how other people live, how things are done in different parts of the world, admire the architecture and to taste the food. I admit, narrow streets and food are so important when it comes to travelling as I feel they set the mood of the place (It’s just my thing).

Mallorca Island

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I absolutely love this island! If you ever go, I would highly recommend you hiring a car and visit a lot around. We’ve been on a one day road trip from El Arenal to Cap de Formentor and it was the highlight of our holiday. Our first stop was Valldemossa, and then Soller – traditional Spanish villages where you can wander around the narrow streets and buy little souvenirs from boutiques.

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Then, we continued the journey to Port de Soller where we spend 2 hours on the beach. At the end of the day, we watched the sunset in Cap de Formentor.

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Palma, the capital city of the Island, is wonderful! It reminds me of Barcelona in a way, but you can feel the Arabic influence a bit more. I had an amazing Tapas near the Cathedral!

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Why choose Mallorca?

Different from Ibiza, Mallorca has its nightlife, but I would recommend the island for relaxation and culture exploration!

Costa Brava: Lloret del Mar and Barcelona

The Spanish vibes are in bloom in Costa Brava! You get night life, amazing food and lots of things to do. We stayed in Lloret del Mar and visited Barcelona a couple of times. Here’s a picture from Lloret where the sea colours are amazing – probably the best I’ve seen.

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It was a non-traditional trip actually, we didn’t care about relaxation, but rather exploring and doing everything the place had to offer. This was our birthdays getaway, and on my birthday we hired a quad to go around the area and it was amazing!

Not to mention, Barcelona’s Gothic Quarter and its Barceloneta beach stole my heart!

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Why choose Costa Brava?

We had loads of fun, so if you’re looking for a trip where you’d do stuff, Costa Brava is for you!

 

Tuscany: Florence 

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Ah, my absolute love is Italy! You already know it, I guess, but I can’t help but say it. My best friend Mercy is from Florence and one Spring we decided to go there for a weekend break. The city is so beautiful and its narrow streets got me. It’s full of history and art museums that you would highly enjoy.

Food wise – We had the best sea food pasta and Prosecco at Cafe Giubbe Rosse. Cheers to that!

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We visited from Chianti (the winery) to Pisa and all Florence in around 3 or 4 days. If you’re for the hunt of culture, food & wine, then you know the place.

Why choose Florence?

Book your trip to Florence if you love amazing food and full of history streets. Museums are great here too, including the house of Galileo Galilei!

P.S: Have you seen my article on the Summer Swimwear 2018: Hottest Pieces Available in Stores?

Lots of love,

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Hello girls,

Who’s ready for some holiday vibes? Hands down Italy is my favourite holiday destination in Europe: delicious food, great culture, amazing architecture and awesome scenery. Did I mention the narrow streets? If I didn’t just yet watch the video to explore them with me. Let’s see what things you could do to enjoy every minute of your holiday – and I’m not talking about staying on the beach reading a holiday book.

How to get there

I’ve included this section because if you’re not doing this already, I think it’s important to consider it. When you’re booking your flights, you want to make sure the onward journey will allow you for an extra day of holiday: getting to your hotel around check-in time (usually midday) is perfect. You would then have half a day to catch some rays as well and also quickly get the feel of the place, check out what you could do in the next days (cool places to eat at, hire quads, go dancing on a beach club). This time, we went for a late check in as we stayed in Palermo city for one night and the next day at lunch time, we went to our Domina Zagarella Resort in Santa Flavia.

Must do

Must do in Sicily: boat trips!

You have to go on a boat trip. We had lunch on the boat cooked my a local person, and then we dived in a golf – the water was a bit cold but it was so worth it.

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Must eat & drink

Arancini and Red Wine! They are rice balls filled with ham and cheese – YUM!

 

Hope you enjoyed and got you inspired for your next trip!

Until next time,

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Hello there,

We’re getting so close to proper summer and girl…we all want to build our summer bodies, but today’s post is more than just having a hot body. We’re exploring how sustained workouts can help you achieve the confidence you need and the ‘winner’ posture. Keep on reading for my tips coming from my 8 months gym experience.

Miss Andrada How the gym helps you gain confidence

When / where should you workout?

First of all, you need to find a convenient time and super convenient gym place (no more than 10 minutes walking until you reach it). I can’t stress enough how important this is. It will help you not quit it when you would rather have a pizza and a glass of red wine instead. Personally, I go to the gym right next to my work place during lunch time. I appreciate that some of you won’t find lunch the best time for the gym, but you can have a handful of almonds before your workout and have your launch at the desk (not the perfect scenario, but it’s worth it) after you complete it. That’s what I do and trust me, it really works!

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Achieving Body Confidence

When you work out, you feel you are making progress. You feel you’re getting close to a better lifestyle, you release stress and you feel you’ve burned out those fats that you put on from that small chocolate bar you had the day before. You will soon discover that if you attend the gym from two to three times a week, in three or four months your body posture will improve.  I would highly recommend going to classes as they teach you how to lift weights and they will push you to your limits (I know they do for me). Your posture will improve, you will walk with more confidence, straight back and amazingly toned legs. And you don’t do it for the looks, you’re doing it for your inner confidence and the way you hold yourself. I didn’t realise this at first, but one day, I’ve put on my high-heels, some boyfriend jeans a white top and I was rocking the streets of City of London. I felt amazing! And you CAN FEEL THAT TOO.

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The motivation behind the sustained workouts 

One thing that you must understand is that you need a high motivation to show up. Even if you feel that you’ll not give your best, it’s important to just show up. You’ll figure it out afterwards. Your motivation should be that you want to be the best version of yourself. And that’s enough! You might build bridges in your career, be the best chef and feel the best way possible through your workout sessions. It needs to be sustained though: try to go there three times a week and you will learn so much! I know I did. I knew NOTHING about the gym, about different exercises but I came to learn. I’ve learn so many things from YouTube videos, my boyfriend and magazines. After you work out for a while, you will feel the need for a healthy diet. Not BS-ing you right now, but eating healthy means so so much when it comes to living a healthy lifestyle and improving your body feel. I might do a healthy eating post if you’re interested in what I eat to keep me slim and healthy.

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So, go get yourself a gym pass and start your workout routine. You’ll see great improvement 😎

I’m so so happy to be here with you on your journey, so feel free to leave me any questions you might have in the comment section!

Until next time,

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Hello again girls,

How have you been? I bet you’ve been busy. We all are. All the time. Will we let us stop us from looking fabulous? Right now, I want to talk to you about a routine we as ‘the I want-to-do-it-all girls’ should all have to look and feel ‘a million dollars’ every day.

4 steps to be stylish and don’t spend 5 h getting ready

1. Use less make-up products to be ready quick

Although I really don’t wear make-up everyday as I go to the gym at lunch time, but for the days I want to wear it, I made my own 5 minute make-up routine to quickly apply it before I go to the office. All you need is 5 products and you’ll be ready in wow… 5. Try this: foundation, liquid eye-liner, mascara, natural contour kit, brow kit. Trust me, it’s all you need to look amazing. Try to limit yourself to as little products as possible to avoid the temptation to put eyeshadows at 8 o’clock in the morning just to spend 30 minutes on the make-up. Time waste..

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2. Plan your outfits once a week

As you probably have seen in The Mindset of High Achievers – Habits for Achieving your Desired Fashion Style, you should plan your outfits once a week. In that way, you wouldn’t have to browse all your wardrobe in the morning to decide on your next one and more importantly, it will save you time on ironing in the morning. You got it! Plan & iron once a week for increased productivity.

3. Do your hair in the morning for 5 minutes

Since I have cut my bangs, I am washing them and straightening them everyday. There’s no way my hair will look good if I don’t straighten it just a little bit in the morning. Again, I only do it for 5 – 6 minutes and it looks good. I just feel better when my hair looks put together. Try this even though you don’t have bangs.

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4. Eat healthy

You are what you eat and the more healthy you eat, the better you will feel and the nicer you will look. Carbs and sugar can make you look fat and tired; plus they have negatives effects for your skin too. Reduce the number of carbs and sugar and you will feel amazing results. Opt for a salad in the morning, chicken & vegetables for lunch and salmon for dinner.

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And this is all. Follow these 4 steps and get you looking impeccable all the time 💋 By sharing this article on Facebook, you will help me achieve my goal of improving more girls’ lives.

Hey! Let’s hang out on Instagram follow me on @missandradavonc

Until next time,

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Social Media can be both a fun community to be part of, but also a pain sometimes. I feel that there is a lot of negativity going on at the moment or boasting for getting compliments. Feeling the same thing? Let’s see exactly why you SHOULDN’T care about it and how you can still enjoy social media in 2018!

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How to enjoy social media in 2018

Don’t be influenced by negativity

As I said, there is a lot of negativity going on on social, especially on Twitter. It’s a common fact that people use Twitter to complain about their lives or brands that have miserably failed in their eyes. When I first read these types of tweets I roll my eyes. Then, I understand why people do it. They need compassion and want others to ‘suffer’ with them – at least they’re not the only ones. They want everyone to hate Mondays, to blame KFC for their advertising techniques and people to tell them that it’s OK to have a bad day, that it’s OK to procrastinate and to do nothing with their lives.  Well, it’s NOT OK to expect others to join your boat and clap while you walk for nothing. Instead of making people change and progress, this negativity has opposite effects.

I’ll call Twitter the Yes Man of all social channels because this is what they made out of it. It’s negative, but don’t let it affect you. Be the one example to change the Twitter game. While others complain, you wish them a good day. While others hate Mondays, post a picture of your morning coffee with an empowering message (if you’re genuine). It’s about being yourself in a place where the trend is super negative. Don’t feel you need to follow the vibe to fit in. You’ll find your niche audience who will listen to you and be happy to receive your tweets everyday. You will feel happier too!

Be confident

You have to be confident about yourself and about the content you post out there. Everyone is unique and has something cool about themselves. Find your thing and do just that!

Be unique

Take inspiration from the people you admire but do not copy someone else’s style or pictures as social media is not about everyone having the same content, but about expressing your personality to create an audience for yourself / meet people alike. It’s easy to enjoy something that comes natural to you. Feeling under pressure to look or act in a certain way is not healthy and for sure not the point of social media. Be yourself and you will feel better about everything you do.

It’s not about the number of followers / likes     

Accept the fact that people unfollow on Instagram; it’s a fact and people keep on wondering why. Users can unfollow because they want to boost their profile (don’t ask me why) or they don’t find the posts they get on their newsfeed useful for them. That’s fine because you will have a genuine audience in the end of the day. Don’t get obsessed about the number of followers you’ve got on social. Interacting will other users, although it takes a lot of time will pay off. It’s also fun! I have met a couple of new bloggers on Twitter in just one hour in the evening 🙂 And yeah – that disengagement thingy you get on Instagram now? Everyone is dealing with it now because of Instagram’s algorithms; we can only support each other by commenting on pictures and being more active.

Enjoy your growth journey

Have you ever looked back at your accounts and noticed a great improvement in your content since you first started? It human nature to evolve on every level and it’s amazing when things like these happen. Seeing your growth has to make you happy, so enjoy it! It’s a journey that you signed up for (see what I did there?) and it will make you discover yourself.

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Until next time,

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